A Will to my Daughters =)

`Letter to my Daughters`

Just in case Allah decides to call me home sooner rather than later

My beams of Sunshine

Your papa and I often called you both our "permata hati - sunshine , anak papa" the first time you smiled at us. I wanted to be the best mother possible for my babies so I loaded up flash cards, toys that encouraged the development  of your fine motor skills, Hi5 CDs, ELMO CDs.

I read up on babies' and toddlers' developmental stages on Baby Center.com. I spent nearly all my free time facilitating your learning experiences from time to time, making sure every moment was constructive to your critical learning years in future.

Bulldogs' cheeks and Flabby arms

If the laughter is the best therapy, the children are the ultimate elixir!!!

The point here is, find humour in everything you do and in everyone you meet. For there will be times when you may meet a dead end or encounter unpleasantness in some people.

Humour has a wonderful way of clearing up muddled situations that temper can't. That I almost did.

So my dear, laugh a lot and laugh hard, laugh till you tears roll down your cheeks and your sides hurt. All those endorphins will do you good. If all else fails, I find that watching YouTube video of "Hantu Kak Limah Pulang Rumah" often helps.  (^_^)

To infinity and Beyond!!

My dear girls, when I gaze into your bright eyes, I believe that both of you can be GREAT one day. You are incredibly intelligent (your Papa would always say you inherited his brain). Whatever your dreams may be, reach of them, and reach high.

Never let a jealous schoolmate or officemate, or even family member tell you that are things you cannot do (except for taking drugs, drinking, gambling - you know the drill!).

Life is too full of mediocre people telling the extraordinary ones what can't be done. Never mind what can't be done. It is your business to decide what can be done. Period.

Who will be your Prince Charming??

I may not be around this time (maybe), but I have to say on my future sons-in-law.

My precious ones, when it comes to matters of the heart, girls must not let them go to their heads. Always conduct yourselves in such a manner that no man would dare dishonour you. You must consciously decide whom you will love. Love a man who is appreciates you and the man that worthy of you.

Ofcourse, if I have to break it down to specific, I would probably say look to your father as a fine example or much better..hehehe..

One thing you must understand about your mom's heart - you will always be my cherished little ones. So it is my hope that the men both of you eventually choose as your soulmates will treasure you even more. But if they don't, you can be sure I'll return to haunt their miserable, wretched lives for long, looooooong time...hehehehe (^_^)

Finally...ehem ehem...

When i ponder the miracle of my two beautiful girls, I can't help myself to stop my tearsdrop, which remind me "Allah is The Greatest" that present me both of you in my life.

"For here you are, standing here, loving me, whether or not you should."

" I Love you both so much"

~ xoxo Mama ~

THE MOST PRECIOUS PRESENTS GIVEN BY ALLAH